Custom Ceremonies

To create your personal ceremony, we'll start with a Ceremony Questionnaire to get a better idea of who you are and what you're looking for. From there, we will work together to design something that is just right for you.

Witnessing & Facilitation

I am available in the California Bay Area for in-person facilitation, or for virtual facilitation.

If you are envisioning a more private, personal ceremony but would like a witness present, I am available to witness.

Ceremony Lending Library

Follow up your ceremony with an integration session to process your thoughts and emotions and set your intentions moving forward.

Types of Ceremonies

I offer ceremonies for all types of life events, including events that may impact you deeply, but that our culture doesn't typically make space for.

Beginnings: Starting a new job, buying a home, becoming a parent, baby blessing, adoption

Transitions: Puberty, menopause, gender identity, coming of age, graduation, ending breastfeeding, career change, disability, retirement

Cycles: Birthdays, seasonal ceremonies, new year, solstice, family traditions, anniversaries

Goodbyes/ Healings: Moving, divorce, abortion, pregnancy loss, diagnosis, infertility, pet loss, surgery, illness, injury, forgiveness, letting go, loss anniversaries, processing grief

Honoring/Celebrations: Friendship celebrations, proposals, coming out, achieving a goal, significant birthdays, chosen family, godparents

Integration Sessions

Borrow from a catalog of ceremonial supplies to give your ceremony the feel you are hoping for.

Ceremony Designs & Scripts

With your input, I will create a ceremony outline with the elements, rituals, and symbols that capture the tone and purpose of your ceremony.

If requested, I can also write out a detailed script for your ceremony. All the details are taken care of so you can focus on being present.

I was so fortunate to work with Julia for a friend's 50th birthday ceremony. Julia made it so easy to show up with confidence to facilitate the sacred space! She worked with me 1:1 to ensure the tone was right, she created the full script to read from, and even had a list of all the items I would need to flawlessly execute. The ceremony was so special and my friend felt held as she walked into this new chapter with her community by her side.

- Libby E.

Community Circles

Connect on a deeper level with your family, friends, or community.

Custom Circle Consultation

Curious to start your own community circle but not sure how? In a consultation session we can flesh out your ideas and talk through tips and pitfalls, so you feel empowered to move forward with your own circle.

Custom Circle Facilitation

Do you have an idea for a circle but want help bringing it to life? Maybe it is a group of phone addicts trying to make a change, friends who want a way to connect despite busy lives, or new mothers hoping to share more authentically. Whether it is one-time or ongoing, in-person or virtual, we can work together to create it.

Attend an Existing Circle

See our Events page for a list of current circles.

Julia welcomed me with open arms and I joined a group who listened and understood. We cried, we laughed, and I've never felt so seen in my life.

- Huong N.

Feeding Your Demons® Sessions

Feeding Your Demons® (FYD) is a deep and effective evidence-based approach for dealing with difficulties in your life, such as negative emotions, fears, or illnesses.

In the context of this method, “demon” just means anything that is draining your energy, blocking your happiness, or keeping you from feeling free. There is no religious connotation or shame associated with having demons, they are part of what it means to be human and we all have them. It can be something outside of ourselves (physical pain, relationship or job difficulties) or something within our own minds (like fear, anxiety, or any difficult emotion).

The central idea of this method is feeding, not fighting. If we fight against or run away from our demons, the parts of ourselves that we repress or disown actually gain power and become even more problematic.

With FYD, we pay attention to our demons, turn towards them with love, and honor the part of ourselves we may normally try to avoid. We offer that part of ourselves love and compassion, and by nourishing these challenging emotions and turning towards them, we can come into relationship with them, listen to their wisdom, and even transform them into allies.

A Feeding Your Demons® Feast

For people interested in using FYD for deep and transformative healing work, I offer packages of multiple sessions, with other supportive practices.

Individual, Couples, or Group Sessions

As a Certified Facilitator of Feeding Your Demons® I work with individuals, couples, and groups. Couples and group sessions can be used to work specifically on relationship issues or group dynamics, but can also be done as a silent individual activity within a supportive group context.

Note that FYD sessions are not therapy and are not provided in a therapeutic context.

Doing Feeding Your Demons® with Julia helped me connect with my deep wisdom in a way that I'm not able to do in everyday life. It felt like coming home to myself and being connected with my deepest knowing of who I am.

- Ellen H.

Pricing

I aim to make these services available to people of all incomes, while still valuing the hard work that goes into these custom offerings.

This is a passion project and labor of love. The main goal is not to make money, but to provide a unique and meaningful service.

If the prices are unaffordable for you, please contact me to discuss sliding scale information.

Pricing varies widely and is based on the services being provided. After your exploratory call, you will be provided with a detailed options and pricing document.

For reference, here are some very general price points:

• Custom ceremony design starts at $300

• Circle attendance at existing circles ranges by event, please see our Events page for more information

• Custom circle facilitation starts at $500

• Feeding Your Demons® sessions start at $50

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